Thursday, April 18, 2024

Whew

 


 After 18 months of research and writing, I've finished the first draft (really many drafts because I edit along the way) of 300 Unsung Women. All the -mini-bios (100-200 words) are written, the formating is done and the women are in 68 categories such as activist, astronomer, doctor  inventor, lawyer, resistance fighter

Who are these women?

They did spectacular things, breaking the bondaries of gender limitations over the centuries.

  •  Some were never known but their work made a difference
  • Some were known by a few but are mostly forgotten
  • Some had their work stolen by men

I want to sit down and chat with them all. I would like to thank the women who invented the dishwasher and windshield wipers. The woman who had to teach behind a screen so she wouldn't upset the male students. The ones refused degrees or were called names because they didn't fit the stereotype of what a woman should be. The spies that fought for their beliefs often sacrificing their lives.

I had help in finding the women. When I mentioned the project to friends, they would add names to those that I had already found. 

Then it was my job to research and write. I ended up with more than 300 women and the decision of whom to include was difficult at best. My husband said, there could be volume two.

Tomorrow, I print out the book to edit it again. Then my husband, also a writer, will edit it and probably after corrections are made still another editing before I am ready to send it out into the world.


Wednesday, April 17, 2024

Protecting Oneself

If I were working for a university, some government offices or certain corporations I might be punished for writing this. If I had been invited to speak somewhere, the invitation might be withdrawn.

I don't care. I'm so frustrated with hearing Israel has a right to protect itself. 

I don't disagree. 

What is frustrating is that so does every country. Protecting oneself does not mean killing and starving 33,000 people.

Israel attacked Iran's embassy. Iran protected itself by striking back.

You attack us, we attack you is not a good way to peace.

I am not anti-semetic. I am anti-Israel's government bullying of other countries. 

Until my mid-twenties I was 100% pro Israel...then I met a a number of Palestinians, and the more I met I learned there were two sides. 

I am also ashamed that my birth country's weapons have helped kill people in Gaza. At least the weapons industry is happy while the survivors will have had only more hatred for their enemy generated.


Tuesday, April 16, 2024

Free Write--The Cat

 

Prompt: Photo of a cat waiting for the store to open so she can spend the day inside on a pillow that the owners keep for her.

Today's Free Write was at Bronzette, because we learned that they serve an almost English Breakfast. For almost a decade three different restaurant owners of La Noisette served English breakfasts. The last two did not. Thus, when we found the breakfast on Bronzette's menu we went there for breakfast and out Free Write. Rick and I are still in France and Julia is in Switzerland. Here's this week's Free Write. As usual we write for ten minutes without stopping, editing or correcting.

Rick's Free Write -- Les Chats

Many of the cats in our village don’t have owners. Rather, they deign to spend time with you, as they please, and permit you to adore them for awhile.

A few are skittish and haste into the sewer drain or jump/scale a stone wall and disappear into an open window in a vacant building.

One silky-furred black cat, who spent most of his days sleeping in a flower planter, began a habit of prancing halfway up the street to greet us as we returned home, probably because we showed him some affection. He basically ignored Sherlock, who was perplexed at our fraternization with the enemy.

The black-and-white pictured here, whom I will call ‘The Burglar’ because of his mask, appears to live somewhere around the church plaza. A few months ago, he decided to adopt the new flower shop that opened across the street from the church.

Each morning, including days the shop is closed, Burglar bounds down the steps and waits patiently for the merchant to open up. Then the cat strolls in through the door and takes up a position on a chair or a table.

Lately, another cat, a ginger, has attempted to follow Burglar’s lead. But he doesn’t seem to ever get in the door. This is clearly a one-cat shop.

D-L's Free Write Le chat attends

"Where are they?

Puss looked at her reflection in the store window then up and down the street.

The church bell rang once ... 9:15.

Why was he late? Bad enough that the store was closed Sunday and Monday. Didn't he know she needed to find another place to hang out on those days.

It wasn't that Puss was homeless.

She'd taken up residence at night with a little old lady after her first family had moved and forgotten her.

She refused to accept she shared responsibility.

She'd avoided her cage when they brought it out and placed it on all the new boxes.

Seth and Lisa had chased her until their father said, "We have to go:  we'll miss our plane."

The old lady offered a really good menu at night when Puss returned.

Ah! There he was strolling ... strolling just like he wasn't late.

He patted Puss before opening the store.

From her pillow near the counter, she watched him put the plants outside.

Her job was to look cute and adorable for their clients. 

The bell over the door tinkled and a couple entered.

Her workday was beginning.

Julia's Free Write The Cat

The cat

And here I sit, even with my shadow, my changed circumstances seem mighty strange.

I watch for the dogs I knew.

I see neighbors, children, and many people with whom yesterday I exchanged news and pleasantries.

I see the people I ignored and some that I will even happily now be able, and more comfortably, to ignore.

The weather is fine, our house and surroundings remain the same and where they always were.

I’ll take a nap on what used to be our bed.

I openly laughed about those who believe in re-incarnation.

Yesterday I stumbled, struck my head and here I am, no longer a man, but a cat!

If only I could let my family and friends know that I, the pragmatic lawyer, have become a cat.

Hey, I’ll just curl up beside them, purr, and hope that none of them turn into that nasty dog down the street.

Julia has written and taken photos all her life and loves syncing up with friends.  Her blog can be found: https://viewsfromeverywhere.blogspot.com/ 

Rick is an aviation journalist and publisher of www.aviationvoices. com

 

D-L has had 17 fiction and non fiction books published. Check out her website at: https://dlnelsonwriter.com

 



 

Friday, April 12, 2024

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Afternoon tea

 

Arabic mint tea, which I often order.

My Irish friend is waiting at Mille et Une tearoom. We meet infrequently yet regularly. I forgo my usual Arabic mint tea for plain old Ceylon. 

The Easter bunnies and decorated egg baskets in the window have been replaced with white and wicker baskets of cookies, biscuits to my UK friends. I decide over the next few days, I'll try each one starting at the right bottom corner with the citron cookie. Spoiler alert: It was wonderful.

The tearoom fills up. Despite the sun, the wind is a bit too strong for outside sipping.

There's a woman dressed if she were doing a Ritz tea or an English cream tea. She is with a woman in jeans and a sweatshirt. If they looked alike, they might be mother and daughter, but they don't. They are engrossed in their conversation.

Sonja, the green rocer across the street, comes in with Pepsi, her chihuahua. Her dog has the same name as the tailor's dog from the shop next to hers. She can watch her store from the seat she takes. When there's a customer, she runs out, leaving Pepsi, who watches at the door until she returns.

Nelson, who is named for Mandala and not for me, rushes in. He's a black French bulldog followed by his owner, who has the restaurant not far from the train station. As usual, he tries to extract a doggie treat from my right pocket, but his nose is not designed to reach the pocket's bottom. Of course, I give him one, two, three as he knows I will.

A retired woman who is usually there in the morning with a friend with amazing shoes, comes in alone. I don't know her name, but we've smiled and chatted and I have with many of the regulars.

The tearoom owner's twins come in from school and disappear to their living quarters upstairs.

The owner of the new candle shop next door returns his cup and saucer from an earlier coffee.

The tea room is a pretty pink. All types of teas and coffees are on a shelf in matching, large aluminium cans. They are labeled.

There is a low buzz of conversation. 

Outside, my husband walks by with our dog but doesn't come in giving my friend and me a chance for woman-to-woman conversation. If Sherlock knew I was inside with his doggy copains Pepsi and Nelson, he would want to come in.

My friend and I talk about the lack of professionalism in communication today, Barcelona, attitudes, introverts vs. extroverts and more. She is at least half my age, but generational differences do not exist. Background differences do, not as a negative but as a plus as we share experiences. 

There are other places in the village where we congregate with friends. L'Hostalet is now open for the season mornings, but still not at night where expats and villagers mingle over a glass of wine.

The new owners of the original restaurant La Noisette at the end of my street is once again a gathering place, and Bronzette which is a restaurant serving all-day beverages another. Before Bronzette, the place was called Fountain, but when the village redid the road in front turning it into a plaza/pedestrian walk, the fountain was removed. At least they left the large shade tree providing a respite from the sun at the outdoor tables.

We adore Mille et Une and l'Hostalet and want them to do well. They provide a welcome break to our writing. They let us do people watching. Both are informal meeting places. We also patronize the others.

When my daughter comes later his month, she is already planning her morning coffees and maybe an afternoon tea or glass of wine. In the interest of good mother/daughter relations, I will have to go with her.

You know the cliché: It's a dirty job, but someone has to do it.

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Thursday, April 11, 2024

Free Assange

 

Three men, Edward Snowdon, Julian Assange, Daniel Ellsberg have paid dearly for speaking truth to power. Their statues stood in front of the UN in Geneva and the three-legged chair which will stand until all nations sign an anti-land mine and anti-cluster bombs. Out of the 164 countries who have signed, the U.S. and Russia have not.

Biden said, according to the BBC and France24, that he is considering dropping charges against Julian Assange, based on a request of the Australian Prime Minister. 

Assange, 52, a journalist, is guilty of speaking truth to power. From June 2012, he was a captive, first voluntarily with asylum in the Ecuadoran embassy where he had been made a citizen. 

He was forcibly removed and then imprisoned by the British government  awaiting various court rulings to extradite him to the U.S. where he faces up to several lifetimes in prison for violating the Espionage Act when Wikileaks, of which he is publisher, put online a video of U.S. troops shooting unarmed civilians in Iraq, a war crime.

Several major publications picked up the story including The Guardian and New York Times. They have never been charged with espionage.

When Assange was in Geneva in 2010 to speak at the UN and at the Swiss Press Club, I wanted to see him.

I did not have press credentials, although I was a financial journalist with a weekly newsletter directed at Canadian co-operatives -- so I made one and sealed it in plastic.

The guard at the press club gate was dubious as he examined it much too carefully.

"Please," I begged in French. "My boss will kill me if I don't get this story."

He told me to check with the next guard inside the gate, who was talking as I walked by. I made it inside the building.

The Swiss Press Club was in a mansion. The room where the press conference was to be held has a chandelier that merits being in a château with its crystal decoration. Large wall mirrors on each side create a chandelier that reflects light into infinity. 

The reflection could be a symbol of a truth that has no end.

Inside the room was crowded with reporters, some of whom I recognized from the local news. I found a seat.

Assange talked mostly about his work, reporting news from Africa and how his organization worked.

Assange was besieged with questions. I did not ask the questions I wanted to. The other reporters were there legitimately with editors waiting for their stories.

The session ended. As Assange left, I stopped him. We exchanged a few words. 

I didn't get to ask what I wanted. "Aren't you afraid for your life?" 

No one knew what lay ahead for him. A fake accusation of rape, years of voluntary imprisonment in an embassy, an assination attempt, forcible removal from the embassy, court hearings in the UK, bad conditions of imprisonment in an unsavory UK jail.

Every journalist who reports the truth should be afraid. Every non journalist should be afraid that a country as powerful as the U.S. can arrest you for breaking one of its laws even though you were never in the country whose laws you were said to break. 

Assange has paid a high price for speaking truth to power as a legitimate news person. It is time to drop the charges and let him go home to Australia.



 

Wednesday, April 10, 2024

Abortion

 

If the Republicans are hoping abortion issues will go away by November's election, they are delusional.

Why won't it?

Because every fertile woman, everywhere someday may face having to make the choice for themselves or their underage daughters. Even many of those who said, "I would never get an abortion" when faced with an unwanted pregnancy opted for their "never." They will vote against pro-life candidates for their own well-being.

I spent almost a year writing Coat Hangers and Knitting Needles about the history of abortion in the United States. The book had a chapter with my grandmother and her friends, very proper Victorian ladies, talking about the "knitting needle solution" to keep their family size manageable.

It was a depressing year, because with each bit of research I became more convinced that abortion had the same chance of being stopped as prohibition was able to stop drinking but that attempts to stop abortion would be useless at a great price to too many.

I was always pro-choice but did not feel I had the right to decide for another.

Before Roe v. Wade, before birth control was available easily, many of my friends had abortions. One died. Almost all had horrendous experiences of back rooms including one abortionist making a pass at his patient, immediately after. There were dirty newspaper-covered tables and bad treatment.

People, who lost mothers, daughters, sisters, cousins, nieces to back- room abortionists, told stories of the pain at their deaths.

I was lucky enough to interview Bill Baird, who fought hard to make birth control available. He was also pro- choice and went to jail more than once in his crusade for women's reproductive freedom.

There were doctors risking their careers and groups like the Jane Collective  who made sure women could have safe abortions. 

There was the Clergy Consultation Service started by a New York minister and soon there were groups operating throughout the country. They sent women out of the country, including to Montreal where Dr. Morgenthaler in Canada performed thousands of abortions on Canadian and American women. The need was so great that he expanded to six clinics.

The more illegal, the more this type of group will start up. In some cases, it will help women who can afford an airline ticket or to take time off from work to travel to where they can be safe from their government.

I sent the book to every pro-life organization, every pro-life legislator or judge including the Supreme Court. 

Women do not want a government to control their bodies, to control the number of children they have. It is NOT the legislative role. 

It is not the role of anyone else but the women who is pregnant. 

Women: vote against any candidate that wants to control your body. The candidates who hope you won't care enough, are wrong. Prove it to them on election day.





Tuesday, April 09, 2024

Free Write --The house

 

Today's Free Write prompt came from our third partner in Geneva... Rick and I were at the tea room Mille et Une in France. A friend, Sammy, wanted to join us and rather than hurt his feelings we explained, but said we'd love to have him sit with us while we drank our mint tea and hot chocolate. One of the joys of our village is that we can never go anywhere without running into a friend, but it makes finding free write space without interuption is a little harder.

Prompt: In the light of the day, the house wasn't as bad as it was in the dead on the night.

D-L's Free Write

 In the light of the day, the house wasn't as bad as it was in the dead on the night.

Marina hated that house. 

Why, why, why had she married Tom. She knew he loved the house and would never want to leave it

It was built in 1790 by one crazy man who had fought in the American Revolution. The bullet from some Lobsterback was still in his brain.

Maybe that was why nothing was even: floors sloped and if they wanted to replace a window, the glass would have to be custom cut and was not even into a rectangle.

During the day light filtered in if, if, if it was sunny. During a snow or rain storm it was dark.

Sometimes, she felt the house was haunted. She had researched who had lived there.

In 1817 a man had killed his wife in the kitchen. In 1872 everyone had died to the flu, but there was no pandemic that year.

Tom was in New York on business. It was the first time Marina had been in the house alone.

Taking her camera she started taking photographs. Maybe, maybe, maybe if she redeocrated, she wouldn't hate it so.

The photos showed the rooms with all their faults. Some were unclear, a smoky image on the left side of many of the pictures.

It was an old camera. Or was it the camera?

The house creeked.

If this was a movie, and she was the heroine, she would investigate.

Instead, she put on her coat and grabbed her car keys. 

Maybe her friend Marge would let her stay the night...or longer. 

Rick's Free Write

“In the light of the day the house wasn’t as bad as it was in the dead of the night…”

The rain was coming harder now. A torrent. It always sounded louder than it was as it struck the expanse of Lexan above the dining area. 

Sometimes, when it was not raining, there’d be a loud ‘thud’ on the Lexan, usually a cat jumping down from the rail of the patio above. But the cat hadn’t come lately, spooked by the construction at the house next door, which had been his route to scale the grapevine up to the patio.

The rain suddenly intensified. No, that was hail. I lay in bed, hoping the stones were not large enough to crack the Lexan and cause a leak. Or worse, break the sheet and flood the apartment. That would be dangerous with all the electrical wires laying around the floor. I probably couldn’t even leave the bed in such conditions.

The dog started barking. Probably at the hail. Surely there were no dogs outside in this weather.

“Stop! No!” I yelled at him, and he reluctantly tunneled under the duvet.

I wondered if this storm would cause the little river to flood, the way it had when it washed 30 cars up on the bank. So the town fathers dug the riverbed deeper, and there’s been a drought ever since.

The hail subsided. But then there was a brilliant flash of lightning, followed quickly by an enormous clap of thunder. Must be right overhead. Not even time to count one thousand and one… Then another crash.

Hail turned to light rain, and I lay there watching the dog’s shadow on the wall, illuminated by the lone street lamp outside the front door. Eventually I must have dozed off.

In the morning sun, as I walked down the narrow street toward the church, I saw a large crowd. The top of the bell tower had fallen.

Julia's Free Write

In the light of the day, the house wasn't as bad as it was in the dead on the night.

They looked and looked – would it do?

They had first seen the property when passing by – they got lost – whilst returning from a friend’s new house around midnight. It was spooky at midnight but obviously abandoned. By daylight it was simply run down but still very much abandoned.

Would it do?

He was a carpenter, she an interior decorator. Low on common friends but with one shared and burning desire.

After that visit they enquired at the local mayor’s office and found out that indeed the last owner had died alone and without inheritors. Decent acreage and the city would make them a good price – anything to not only offload the property but to also improve the neighborhood.

A year later they were finished: what better place and what better use than a home for homeless men.  At midnight now the house glows with warmth and the former owner lies peacefully where he fell… at the bottom of the garden.

Julia has written and taken photos all her life and loves syncing up with friends.  Her blog can be found: https://viewsfromeverywhere.blogspot.com/ 

Rick is an aviation journalist and publisher of www.aviationvoices. com

 

D-L has had 17 fiction and non fiction books published. Check out her website at: https://dlnelsonwriter.com